career
Dream Job Details
Thank you for all of the congratulations on here and twitter. You all are the best! It does seem like I’ve got good news after good news… but rest assured this is two years in the making. I cannot believe of all the applicants they chose me! I feel humbled. :)
On to the job details! I posted a few weeks ago about Job Satisfaction and the things that make a job satisfying. I’ll describe the job based on those elements:
- Culture — I must admit this is the best thing about my job! The company culture is ah-mazing. In addition to individual desks, there are two coffee shops and a plethora of comfortable areas where employees can take their laptops and work. They also have a weekly company happy hour. The whole environment is casual, creative and young. I love it.
- Salary — I am taking a pay decrease for this job. It is $6,000 less than what I am making today, but my living expenses will be so much less in NC than in DC that it won’t be a huge change to my budget. I asked about a higher salary and my HR rep said that is the standard beginning salary for my position, but they have 6-month reviews where salaries are reassessed at that point. To be honest, I am not really worried about the salary, which says a lot about the job and company.
- Benefits — I will have full-coverage medical, dental and vision insurance, short and long-term disability, 3 weeks paid time off (vacay+sick), 10 paid holidays, direct deposit, free parking, and a 401(k). They do not match the 401(k) until after the first year, and then it’s a $0.50 match to the dollar up to 5%.
- Location — I will have a 20 to 30 minute commute from my new apartment, but the location is much closer to my family, friends, and, of course, J. :) I love the location of my job—15 minutes away from J’s office and many shopping dangerously tempting places to visit on my lunch breaks!
- Position — The day-to-day work will be a little different than what I am doing now, but I am really excited about the direction and think it will be a great step in my career. I have been warned that there are some days I need to stay late during the busy season, but the company also gives plenty of comp time and flexibility.
That’s it! My first day of work is June 1st and I cannot wait. :)
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I got the job!!!!!
Sooo remember how I announced four days ago a move to NC with no job? Scratch that plan. Just found out I got the Dream Job! No time to share the details, but promise to update soon.
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My journey & reasons for moving to NC in a month.
Like I alluded to in yesterday’s post, I have decided to quit my job and move to North Carolina. Here are all of the details that led me up to that decision. I’ll try to be brief, but make no promises because there’s a lot I haven’t been sharing!
The Quest to end Long Distance
Unless this is the first post you are reading or you’re one to gloss over the personal details of this blog, you probably know that I am in a long distance relationship with a boy named J. LDR’s always need an expiration date. You either have to break up or move, but you can’t continue long distance unless there’s a good reason. The end for us was always J’s graduation this past December. We started 2010 with the goal to live in the same town by summer. Ideally he would find a job up near me since I already have one, but for about three months that proved dead end after dead end. No one seemed to be hiring in the DC area and if they were, the competition was fierce with overqualified candidates in the mix. In the middle of February, I told him to look for jobs in NC, where both of us are from and there are more contacts available. I love the state and have so many friends there anyway, so I would move towards him if he found something there first. About a month ago he got a job and that’s when I started to look.
My Job Search
I have been looking for jobs fairly aggressively since March. At first the search was pretty depressing because I was going after listed jobs that no doubt had hundreds of other applicants. Then I took a different approach: I figured out the companies I wanted to work for, sent them my resume (whether they were hiring or not), and ending up with six phone interviews with three different companies and two networking calls.
Last week, during my four day weekend, I managed to land three in-person interviews and one networking lunch. Of the three official interviews: one I hated, another I could tolerate, and one I absolutely fell in love with. The third one is my dream job at a dream company. I literally have to tell myself to stop day dreaming about it.
To Stay or Leave?
I came back to town Tuesday overwhelmed. I needed to make a decision by this past Saturday whether I was going to move or not because my landlord needs one month’s notice. If I moved out by June 1, then I would live with one of my best friends in NC who needs a roommate at the end of May (so could be perfect). The choice was either to move out in hopes that one of the interviews will turn into a job, or be stuck until at least July 1st and risk giving up a great job that would need me to relocate soon and also getting stuck having to pay a month’s rent and missing out on NC housing I would have June 1st. My decision affected my currnet roommate, who told me she was flexible, but that one of her friends has a vacant room at the end of May (also, potentially perfect). I needed to let my landlord and both of the “roommates” know by this past Saturday.
I was hopping to hear from one of the jobs before this past weekend, but Friday came and went and I didn’t get an answer. My Dream Job emailed me that they were checking my references on Friday, which is a good sign according to some Twitter peeps.
Decision Time
I couldn’t sleep last week and kept going back and forth about my decision. Do I move and hope that I get one of these jobs? Should I stay at my current job and just be patient that something will eventually come along? Do I risk everything I have now–my $41,000 salaried job–for something that is not guaranteed? Do I stay and risk giving up a cheap NC apartment and potentially a good job if I can’t move in time? Am I choosing unemployment in this challenging economic market?
Believe me–it was a really tough decision.
My Rat-Inspired Epiphany
Friday evening my roommate was out and none of my friends were available, so I was stuck alone with my torturous thoughts. I couldn’t stand it so I walked downtown where there was distraction. However, when I got there I never felt more lonely. Usually I like shopping alone, but I was surrounded with people who had someone. Be it a spouse, a child, a friend, a sibling… everyone I saw was with someone and it only made me more depressed.
Still confused, I walked back home with plans to watch a dependably happy romantic comedy and sip a large glass of wine. As I was about to sit down for a nice meal of Mexican leftovers, I saw the most horrifying black creature scurry across the hardwood floors from my couch to a chair in the corner. I shrieked and jumped on my coffee table, trying to figure out what to do. I took a large gulp of the wine in my left hand and speed dialed my sister with my right hand. I told her about the rat slash mouse slash diablo-incarnate, and she recommend I call someone to help. Is there anyone to come over? No, I answered. Your neighbors? Don’t really know them. Your guy friends? They’re out of town or busy and 30 minutes away. Your coworkers? None live near me. I told her I’d figure something out and she wished she wasn’t six hours away so she could help. I ended up calling my landlord then hibernating in my room for the rest of the night.
But I realized how pathetic I was—I had no one I felt comfortable calling. Not that a mouse was a huge crisis, but if I were living near J, I would have a handful of kindred spirits who would come to my rescue in a heartbealt. And that’s when I realized it: If I am surrounded by the people who love me unconditionally, then I can survive anything, including unemployment. It may not come to that (and I really really hope in the next month I get a job)… but if it did it wouldn’t be the end of the world.
Home is Where the Heart Is
It will be such a blessing to be close to my family. This time last year my mom was first starting her chemotherapy and just thinking about last year’s summer months make me shudder. It was so hard being far away during that time. Thankfully she is doing better now, but I realized so much last year that my family means the world to me and I’m so ready to be within an hour’s drive.
I’m also so ready to be a real girlfriend in the same town as my boyfriend. A few months ago one of my coworkers said she had a friend she wanted to set me up with at a party. I couldn’t believe it. “I’m not single!” I told her. I’m done being independent and I’m ready to have my support system close by. I feel like an anti-feminist quitting my job and moving essentially for a boy… but just thinking about being near him makes me happy.
Next…?
So this is where I am today: I have one month to find a job, pack up my DC life and move back to the familiar to brave the unknown. I know, that sounds dramatic, but to me giving up such financial and emotional security is dramatic. I also give you permission to call me a PF-blogging failure. I am fully aware that all of my financial goals and possibly savings may go out the window, but I’ve already planned an unemployment budget if that’s what ends up happening. I plan to give my notice in a week or so at my current job.
I’m really optimistic about last week’s interviews. Of course my optimism scares me because I don’t like the alternative, but I am really hopeful that something will work out in the next few weeks or months. I am equally nervous/scared/excited about the possibilities but I can’t wait to share with you what ends up happening. :) Thanks for reading this looong post and joining me along on this journey back to the SOUTH!!!
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**By the way, thank goodness I have not seen any traces of the diablo rat since Friday night. Me thinks God placed it there to give me some direction, then took it away. Perhaps? ;)
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Job Satisfaction
- Culture — work environment, office space, coworkers, company values
- Salary — amount, paycheck every week/bi-weekly/monthly, direct deposit
- Benefits — flex spending accounts, health, dental, vision, vacation days, reimbursements, perks
- Location — commutes, cost-of-living, distance to/from home or friends
- Position — title, daily work, career goals, status
I’m no psychologist or human resources professional, but it’s only logical that if a person looks for another job, one or more job factors in their current position aren’t met. I think there’s a natural evolution with this because the things you felt when you first started a job may no longer be the same after time and experience.
- Has anyone ever taken a pay decrease through changing jobs?
If yes, what did the lower-paying job have that the other one didn’t?
- Of the five “job satisfaction factors” which are most important to your current position? If you were to switch jobs right now, what factor would you look for in a new job?
- Is your salary worth the amount or is it higher/lower based on other job factors?
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Employee Review & Goals
On January 21st I had my annual employee review at my company. To preface, I love my job. I won’t disclose what I do or where I work, but I love the company, my coworkers, and the variety of the projects. I work underneath two supervisors who I admire greatly. I have been with this company for 19 months now and in that time have received three raises
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Health Benefits
The other day at our staff meeting our boss stood up and said that there were going to be some changes with our healthcare plan. Naturally, I assumed it would be a decrease on services or that the changes would only apply to those with spouses or children.
Not the case.
Apparently my company set up an account to allow each employee to have a debit card with $1,200 to use towards co-pays, prescriptions, and even over-the-counter medications for an entire year. How generous! Our healthcare insurance already is amazing–free dental, vision, medical–but with this card, I probably won’t have to spend a dime on health-related purchases while I am with this company.
It’s a good feeling working for a business that cares about the employees… it almost feels like I got a another raise. :)
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