My Standing Desk

One of the things that really surprised me when I entered the working world is how sedentary it is. After years of walking to and from my classes in college, it was a big adjustment to sit in front of a computer for 8+ hours of the day and then come home at the end of it exhausted… only to sit in front of the TV for the remainder of the evening.

There are hundreds of articles out there talking about the benefits of getting up and moving throughout the workday and the benefits of stand up desks — it increases your metabolism, improves your posture, and reduces the health risks of sitting for long periods of time.

Last November I converted to a stand up desk, and absolutely love it. A coworker of mine had one, so I decided to try it out and see if it improved my health and energy.

Would you like a peak into my office to see it? Of course you do. :)

Stand Up Desk

My “standing desk” is really just a simple tray that I keep my mouse, keyboard and notepad on. I like that it’s easy to convert back to a sitting desk without changing the furniture drastically (like a lot of standing desks out there). I don’t think standing desks are for everyone, either because your work environment doesn’t allow it (aka: this would be awkward in a cubicle), or because you can’t be on your feet for long periods of time, but for me it has definitely helped, and I don’t plan on ever going back to a sitting desk.

Here are a few FAQ when I tell people I have a standing desk:

Did it take a while to get used to?
It took me about a week for my body to get used to. The first few days I came home feeling exhausted, like I do after spending a long afternoon of shopping. But by the end of the week, I noticed I had a lot more energy throughout the day, and didn’t even notice pain in my feet or back.

Does your back or your feet hurt at the end of the day?
Honestly, not at all. I’m technically not standing the whole day, but leaning against my desk and occasionally I’ll rest my foot on my chair to help transfer the weight from my feet. That has a lot less impact on my body than just freely standing.

Do you wear heels? 
I work in a corporate office setting, so I try to wear heels at least two or three times a week, and flats the other days. All of my heels are pretty comfortable (that’s one thing I don’t mind spending more money on), so it doesn’t bother me too much standing in them. However, it does start to weigh on your calves by the end of the day, so I keep a pair of cheap black flats under my desk as back-up and slip on my heels when I walk around the office. So far, so good!

Have you seen an improvement in your health?
I have! This was unexpected, but I’ve seen a lot of improvement in my digestive health. For the past few years, I have experienced stomach aches later in the day (read more on that here), and I really think part of the problem was eating lunch fast and then immediately sitting for the rest of the afternoon. Now that I stand, my food seems to digest easier and I have fewer stomach aches. I have also noticed my core and posture are improved.

Do you ever sit?
I sit when I am reading or editing, but try to stand whenever I use the computer. I have at least one or two meetings a day, which are all sitting around conference rooms, so I have a few breaks from standing.

What is your favorite thing about it?
I love that when I come home at the end of the day, I don’t feel guilty relaxing on the couch and putting my feet up.

Have you ever considered a standing desk?
Do you have this option at your office?
What other questions do you have? :)

PS – You may or may not find me occasionally in the tree pose behind my desk. ;)

Asheville Getaway

I’m pretty sure I’ve written about this before, but I LOVE ASHEVILLE. It’s one of my very favorite cities, and I have not-so-subtly told J I want to live there one day. J’s aunt and uncle live in Asheville and asked us to come and stay in their little cabin on their property. They live on the mountain above the Grove Park Inn with a spectacular view of downtown and Chimney Rock mountain in the distance. It was the perfect weekend getaway!

What was not-so-perfect was the weather. You’d think the first weekend of May would be beautiful and warm, but it felt more like early March with highs in the low 50s and drizzly, cold rain interspersed throughout the day. But that didn’t damper our plans.

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Saturday
We arrived late Friday and spent Saturday perusing the town. We shopped downtown, ate at Carmel’s for lunch and ended up at the Battery Park Bookstore and Champagne Bar, aka my new favorite spot. Why don’t they have something like this in Raleigh or Durham? I’d be here every week. Even dogs are welcome! That evening we went to see J’s favorite band, Relient K play at the Orange Peel. We ate a delicious meal at Storm Rhum Bar & Bistro, in walking distance to the club. The concert was great, although we were among the very select few that didn’t have an X on their hand (aka: we were the oldest in the place:).

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^J took these with his iPhone on Monday, when there weren’t a lot of customers. :)

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Sunday
Sunday we spent at the Biltmore Estates. The day was pretty gross and rainy (this picture sums up our thoughts on the weather)… but rain or shine, the Biltmore was as beautiful as ever. Since we love Downton Abbey, we signed up to do the Butler Tour, curious to see the behind-the-scenes of servant life. We took our time touring the house, and later drove by the beautiful gardens to Antler Hill Village where we took a tour of the winery and wine tasting. That evening we stopped by one of my old college roommates’ apartment, then had Mexican dinner with J’s aunt and uncle (Cinco de Mayo!), and afterwards went to see Iron Man 3 (because it was rainy and gross and J couldn’t wait any longer to see it. Boys!:).

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Sunday

Monday
Monday was beautiful, so we spent the morning meandering downtown before venturing home. We stopped by our champagne bar again to get an old copy of Little Women, ate lunch at Farm Burger, and split a decadent liquid truffle and chocolate cake at the French Broad Chocolate Lounge before heading home.

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Ahhh Asheville. How I love thee. Can’t wait to visit again soon. :)

Tips for Successfully Ordering Clothes Online

Last year I wrote a post on why I hate online shopping. Oftentimes I would come home from work to a package and feel a mixture of excitement and anxiety as I opened it up, only to be sorely disappointed when the clothes were too big, too tight, too see-through, the wrong color, or just didn’t look right. Then you’d have to make the extra trip to the store or the post office to return it, and sometimes lose your discount coupons and pay extra for shipping in the process.

Blah.

I chalked this up to just plain bad luck, but I think I was just going about it the wrong way. I swore I wouldn’t shop for clothes or shoes online ever again, but I love the convenience and savings that comes with online shopping. So I’ve slowly gotten back into the game, but this time with a few rules that help me feel okay when I open my package. Here are some tips for how to work the system. :)

Tips for Successfully Ordering Clothes Online

Shop in the store first and know your size.
I know, this kind of defeats the purpose of online shopping, but most of my bad online shopping luck has come from not knowing how the clothes run, what size fits best, and whether the materials are high quality or not. So I only buy from an online shop that have a physical store (of course, this rules out all of the online boutiques out there, but for me I’ve had too many returns to make it worth it). The stores I can order online are the Loft, Target and J.Crew. I’ve found that Gap, Old Navy and Banana sizes vary based on the outfit, so unless there’s a specific item I have tried on, I usually stick to the store only.

Make a wishlist of items, and stalk them online.
When I go to stores, I like to try on different pants, sweaters, shoes, make a mental note (or save it in my Pinterest wish list) and wait for that bad boy to go on sale. It takes a lot of patience, and it doesn’t work well for must-have items (like a dress for a wedding), but for basics and everyday clothes, I’ve saved so much money. I do this a lot with Target, especially since they offer free shipping and 5% off the purchase to anyone that has their credit or debit card.

Get promotional retail emails.
Almost every retailer has daily email alerts for sales and discounts. One email service I use is Shop it to Me. You can customize it with your favorite stores, types of style, or outfits, and every week (or day) you get a consolidated email of all the deals and sales going on. Now, you have to be careful, especially if you’re easily tempted by good deals, because it may cost you more money than save, but if you select stores you know you will shop then it can certainly help.

Look for discounts and coupon codes.
A lot of times it is cheaper to order online because of discounts codes you can apply to your order, so look on those sites for any codes before you hit that Complete Order button. One of my favorites is Save1.com. I like it because it saves you money (duh), but also because it has a great mission. For ever code that you use, a portion of their commission goes to feed a hungry child through one of their feeding partners. How awesome is that?

Don’t buy final sale and know the return policy.
Don’t buy anything that’s final sale, unless you know absolutely without-a-doubt that it will fit. I have had too many mistake purchases, and it’s not worth it. Similarly, always know the return policy. Can you return it in the store? How long do you have before it can be returned? What is their exchange policy? Do you need to receipt to return it?

 

What are your go-to online shopping sites? Have you had a lot of bad luck ordering from online-only sites? What tips do you have for shopping online? 

April Highlights

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Highlights from April:

+ Pear blossom trees lining my neighborhood
+ Snuggles with Leia
+ Second wedding anniversary
+ Bold hair cut
+ Cotton blossoms from my parents
+ Wine Festival on a beautiful spring Saturday
+ Azaleas in full bloom
+ New cute welcome mat
+ Lime green trees

April was a great month. I only had one major goal, and I’m sorry to admit that was a big fat fail. The first week was good, and I was still more conscious of my eating, but I definitely didn’t follow it as strict as I wanted.

As for my yearly goals: I went to Coquette for my new restaurant of the month, went to the Wine Festival for my local activity of the month, I made shrimp and grits as a new recipe, and read MWF Seeking BFF (review on Monday!), Bread and Wine, and Every Good Endeavor.

How was your April? :)

My Friday Night Broken Heart

Last Friday our church had a documentary screening on human-trafficking. It wasn’t our typical relax-over-homemade-pizza-and-TV Friday activity, but we decided to go anyway, reluctant as we were.

The video was about 90 minutes long, and afterwards there was a panel of church leaders and members who shared how they were helping in the area and around the world to fight the problem. J wanted to stick around and talk with some people at a few tables afterwards. We bought a Tiny Hands bracelet at a booth, and then I asked if we could go. He tried to make conversation on the way to the car, but I just couldn’t speak.

Once our car doors shut, I lost it.

For five minutes in the church parking lot, I cried uncontrollably. Deep gut-wrenching sobs. I wept for the orphans sold into slavery. I wept for the girls herded and bargained like cattle. I wept for the children whose parents permitted, even encouraged, a lifestyle of prostitution, because it was more profitable than other professions. I wept for the women on display in Amsterdam windows for men to purchase for the night. I wept for the women who were tricked by the glamor of a Pretty Woman happy ending, stuck in abusive and violent lifestyles. I wept for the millions of children sexually abused by trusted family members, beginning a life of shame and fear and self-worthlessness.

But above all, I wept because I felt so helpless. The problem was so huge. The number of women too high. The trafficking too smart. The corruption too big. How could I do anything to make even a dent in this problem? It was too much, the evil too great.

It’s easy for me, and most of us I think, to feel helpless and then move on. Feel sad, but chalk it up to another issue we can’t do anything about. Go about our lives and assume someone else will handle it. Someone with more resources and more leadership and more access for change.

But then I think of the African slave trade. Abolition didn’t happen over night, and it didn’t happen from one person single-handedly abolishing slavery. It took years of hard work and awareness and advocation and reform from thousands of individuals who cared enough about the lives and humanity of those persecuted.

I want my grandkids to learn about this issue in their history class. I want it to be a horrible thing that used to happen. On the same list of past horrors like the Holocaust, African slavery, genocide. I want them to ask me if I did anything to help, and I want my answer to be yes. To show them tangible ways of how an average middle-class girl in North Carolina can make a difference, albiet small, in changing the world for the better.

 

Here is the trailer for the video, Nefarious: Merchant of Souls.

Second Anniversary

One of the reasons I like blogging is because it serves as a journal to document my days. Right now I can remember what we did for our second anniversary, but I guarantee you in a year I will probably have forgotten most of the day’s details. So, this is one of those what-I-did posts; thanks for indulging me. Also, I promise next week I won’t talk about love and marriage one single bit. :)

We started the morning off by sleeping in (well, we consider 7:30 sleeping in) and I took Leia for a walk while J picked up breakfast for us (judge if you want, but we love Chickfila breakfast. Fun fact: we ate that the morning we got engaged). We ate our breakfast in bed and watched the last few Happy Ending and Mad Men episodes we saved from the past week. It was nice to just relax and lounge around the house in the morning.

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Y’all, the day was BEAUTIFUL. Sunny, cloudless and highs in the 80s. A perfect day to take off and enjoy! Last year on our first anniversary we got a photostrip picture taken at the mall, so we decided to go back and get another to celebrate our 2nd anniversary. Turns out they don’t do the old fashioned vertical four-panel strips anymore, so we may not hold tightly to this tradition next year.

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Then we headed to North Hills, where we had stayed on our wedding night (at the Renaissance Hotel). We were originally going to go eat at Q-Shack for lunch (where we actually had dinner the night we got married… yeah, of all the nice places we chose barbecue), but we walked by Coquette and its open doors lined with window boxes and Parisian music called out to us me. It was so much more romantic than finger-licking barbecue. And fancy restaurants are so much cheaper at lunch time! We should have date lunches more often.

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After lunch we headed back home, changed into comfortable clothes, picked up our girl and went to the Umstead Park. We brought chairs, a blanket, snacks, our books and spent almost four hours getting lost in the woods and reading by the lake. It was perfect!

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That evening I planned on making shrimp and grits, but it seemed too heavy after a late lunch and snacking at the park, so instead we made a pizza and watched the Life of Pi and walked to get ice cream near our apartment. It was such a low-key day, but it was refreshingly awesome to just do whatever we wanted and celebrate being together.

Have a great Friday! Hope your weekend is happy. :)

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